Rabbi Ephraim Luft's letter to the Yated last month, "Choosing the Music -- A Yiddishe Wedding", is now up at Deiah V'dibbur.
There doesn't appear to be anything new here. We addressed Luft's points just under a year ago when he wrote a series of rambling essays for Deiah V'dibbur then. See for instance, here, here, here, here, and here.